So I asked my husband what I should do this week for my Thursday Thirteen list. He suggested I list thirteen ways to love your lover. He does my book titles too.
He’s mine – back off!
Now I’m not talking about sex here. It’s sometimes nice to show your significant other how much you love them in unconventional ways. It helps to keep the spark alive in any relationship. So here we go…
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2. Give flowers on a normal day. We’re so used to getting and giving flowers on special occasions, I think they’ve lost a bit of the beauty. I love it when my husband buys me some carnations from the store, just because. 3. Random daily hugs. You can never get or give too many hugs. It makes everything seem better. 4. Give them your undivided attention. I don’t know about you, but when someone is listening to me…really listening to me, I feel amazing. I know how much they like/love me with that simple act. 5. Hold Hands. Again, something simple that says more than any words can. 6. Give each other sexy looks. I love being a tease. I love to drive my husband nuts with little teasing looks and…gestures…okay enough on that. (Not sex!) 7. Flirt with each other. Again, I’m a terrible flirt. But it shows that the spark is still there in your relationship. Plus flirting with your spouse is pretty much guaranteed to get you laid! (Not supposed to be about sex – bad me!) 8. Snuggle. (Not sex!) This can be on the couch, watching TV, in bed (not sex!), in the car (not sex!). Anywhere! 9. Give them surprises. I love the little things my husband does for me. Buying me chocolates when he knows I’m desperate. Getting me a movie that he knows I’ve been wanting to see. Cooking me a special meal just because. It makes your lover feel special. 10. Make out! (Not sex!) But there is something to be said for kissing. It’s wonderfully erotic without having sex. It also brings the passion out in your relationship. So pucker up! 11. Watch a movie together. It doesn’t have to be a romantic movie either. As long as you’re watching it together. And by together I mean sitting side by side, in touching range. Not each of you in different chairs on opposite sides of the room. 12. Have a picnic indoors. We do this occasionally when the kids are in bed. We buy wine, get cheese and crackers, some fruit, sit on the floor and talk. (Not sex!) 13. Body massage. This is a great way to relax…okay and this one does lead to sex. But this is your lover your with so go for it! |
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